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@ node
2025-05-17 17:04:43
True love is having a relationship with someone that’s compatible and making it work. It’s about optimizing the relationship, not the partner. Someone else might seem better on the surface but if you don’t work on the relationship it won’t be better. Obviously, I’m excluding cases of abuse and domestic violence. Making it work and building it will always be better. Plus it takes some time to assess if the person is good for you or not. I wouldn’t see myself doing a test run of multiple months (read a year) to assess if that relationship has potential.