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@ btcttombola
2025-06-15 09:52:57
Thank you for sharing with us all this "private" thinking.
The good point is that you are curious about others opinions or advices. And it is a good skill, if you want to improve your own opinion. Open mind is always a good state of mind.
The less good point is that you seems to be a little "lost". But it is not for long, you just need to find your path.
Your life can be seen as climbing a mountain.
You have to find climbing holds to put your hands and feet in it, just to be able to go higher.
You can made bad choice and use a bad spot to put your hands, but it will not be the end, and you can choose another climbing hold, more secure.
If you choose only bad climbing holds and fall, your rope's life is your family and good friends, they will not let you down.
If you stop climbing you will just have cramps in your hands and feet, and it will be harder to continue climbing.
The more you climb, the higher your view around you will be.
My advice will be quite simple, just allow you to "try" something.
It can be silly in other eyes, the most important is the trust and energy you can put it in to make it a success.
And if it is a bad move finally just try something else.
The most important is to be wise enough to secure yourself "financially" if things goes wrong to avoid you a bad fall.
For sharing back to you some personal experience, i think i am older than you and see things a different way. I don't regret any choice i have done younger but now i take more time for valuables things to my eyes.
Which not always match the valuables things to "society" eyes.
I try to hold less things, to keep only essential.
I try to discover other countries, peoples, state of mind. I travel when i can afford it.
I don't want to have a villa, i live in a common house like many people, but would like to live in a smaller house like a tiny one, it would just fit my needs. Having a little garden to enjoy and have foods growing in it.
Having the less footprint on the nature would be a challenge and having a good impact on nature (add some "value" to it) would be a bonus.
The only point that keep me "in the system" is the health.
I know it cost a lot when you are older and need medicine or healthcare. And this is a point that make me rely on other because i am not a doctor or a surgeon.
Most of my skills were born from passions, and they have grown by themself. i think it is the good way to keep going on your path.
You can also discover and learn skill from others, sometimes a simple meet is a complete game changer.
The only point that matter is that you are the only one to know deeply what is good for you.
Just dare, it always worth it.
🫂
#thinkstr