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@ karo
2025-06-14 19:33:53
online dating as a woman is a different ball game so take my replies with a grain of salt, but hopefully it can give you some insight.
anyone asking to connect via other social media right off the bat seems sus to me. they either want to dig more into who you are before they actually meet you or they're a scammer.
wanting to meet offline right at the get is totally valid. that was my approach too. I had dudes wanting to call me or FaceTime me before meeting up and that showed me that they were not the type of person I was interested in. I let them know when I was next available to meet up and let them take the lead from there. As a man, you might have to take a little more initiative to set up a date but the idea is the same. Offline meet is a priority.