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@ Dissident Sound
2025-06-09 10:39:17
there are two parts to PUA
1 - understanding women
2 - getting them to spread their legs
the first part is useful to every man. the second part only to somebody who requires this kind of validation.
when i was in high school my spic English teacher said that guys who sleep with lots of women do so because they have low self esteem ... i couldn't understand it then, but i understand it now.
because back then i was romantic and Naive and loved girls and thought that guys who get a lot of pussy are like me just more successful - namely that they fall in love with girls like me with the difference that the girls love them back - so how can this be bad ?
except they do NOT love girls they sleep with. they are driven by one of two things:
1 - ( at best ) the need for validation ( what my spic teacher was talking about ) that is being able to tell other guys about all the hotties you're banging, so other guys look up to you even if you aren't good at anything else
2 - ( sadly quite likely ) sadism. they may simply do it for the pleasure they feel in destroying relationships. you fuck a girl who has a loving BF causing them to break up now you hurt them both AND you feel righteous about it because it just means the girl was a whore and the guy was a simping cuck so they both got what they deserve.
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there was a low-tier PUA on X a few accounts back who said that "you MUST always hurt betas" - i asked him why it was so important to hurt betas and all his followers ganged up on me with comments along the lines of " because fuck you Beta ! "
of course higher tier PUAs aren't stupid enough to say something like this openly, but they likely know that this is what most of their followers are really after.
one reason i follow Gary is because i am not getting these sadistic vibes from him. he seems genuinely passionate about the SCIENCE of Game, rather than driven by need for validation or sadism as most PUAs are.